Sometimes this blog just turns into my parenting analysis.
Lately I have been growing a lot of little plants in my kitchen window.
As I take them outside to plant in my yard, I have to consider what their needs are-
Some need a lot of sunshine, some need very little.
This last weekend, my mom commented that my middle children (one in specific)
needs a lot of attention from me.
I started giving her excuses for how I didn't have time to give them all one-on-one time each day.
She pointed out that some of my children didn't need it as much.
The more I thought about it, the more I realized that children are like plants.
I make sure they all get fed every day, but am I giving them attention or SUNSHINE?
Especially the ones that need a lot of sunshine to grow well?
So, with the work load I carry with taking care of so many children and
the house and the yard each day,
I found my best one-on-one time is working with them.
It kills two birds with one stone.
2 comments:
That is a scary analogy to me. Every plant I have ever had in my house has died a terrible death...
A great analogy. And great that your mom gives you good advice. I so wish my mom could do that for me now and again.
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