"PERFECTION is HANDLING IMPERFECT PEOPLE PERFECTLY."
I have such high expectations for myself and everyone around me, so I am constantly dissappointed.
Elder Uchtdorf's recent talk about being GRATEFUL in ANY circumstance
has helped me realize that I can be happy even when things aren't going smoothly,
which I have come to notice is hardly ever!
People (including myself) constantly mess up.
Circumstances are hardly ever perfectly efficient and ideal.
The test isn't whether I can make everything run perfectly,
but if I can PERFECTLY HANDLE all the people and circumstances that don't go smoothly.
(My mom is phenominal at this!)
What a discovery this is for me! I love things to be perfectly clean, orderly, etc.
But can I love the people around me as I strive to maintain order?
YES!
My temple sealer's advice (Bishop Edgley) was:
"to be flexible, adaptable, and LONG in patience."